teach iomap_dio_rw() to suppress dsync

New flag, equivalent to removal of IOCB_DSYNC from iocb flags.
This mimics what btrfs is doing (and that's what btrfs will
switch to).  However, I'm not at all sure that we want to
suppress REQ_FUA for those - all btrfs hack really cares about
is suppression of generic_write_sync().  For now let's keep
the existing behaviour, but I really want to hear more detailed
arguments pro or contra.

[folded brain fix from willy]

Suggested-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Christian Brauner (Microsoft) <brauner@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>