xhci: Add quirk to reset host back to default state at shutdown

Systems based on Alder Lake P see significant boot time delay if
boot firmware tries to control usb ports in unexpected link states.

This is seen with self-powered usb devices that survive in U3 link
suspended state over S5.

A more generic solution to power off ports at shutdown was attempted in
commit 83810f84

 ("xhci: turn off port power in shutdown")
but it caused regression.

Add host specific XHCI_RESET_TO_DEFAULT quirk which will reset host and
ports back to default state in shutdown.

Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Mathias Nyman <mathias.nyman@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221024142720.4122053-3-mathias.nyman@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>