workqueue: Add a new flag to spot the potential UAF error

Currently if the user queues a new work item unintentionally
into a wq after the destroy_workqueue(wq), the work still can
be queued and scheduled without any noticeable kernel message
before the end of a RCU grace period.

As a debug-aid facility, this commit adds a new flag
__WQ_DESTROYING to spot that issue by triggering a kernel WARN
message.

Signed-off-by: Richard Clark <richard.xnu.clark@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Lai Jiangshan <jiangshanlai@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>