r8169: reject unsupported WoL options

So far unsupported WoL options are silently ignored. Change this and
reject attempts to set unsupported options. This prevents situations
where a user tries to set an unsupported WoL option and is under the
impression it was successful because ethtool doesn't complain.

Signed-off-by: Heiner Kallweit <hkallweit1@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>