net: phy: extract pause mode

Extract the update of phylib's software pause mode state from
genphy_read_status(), so that we can re-use this functionality with
PHYs that have alternative ways to read the negotiation results.

Tested-by: tinywrkb <tinywrkb@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Andrew Lunn <andrew@lunn.ch>
Signed-off-by: Russell King <rmk+kernel@armlinux.org.uk>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>