ice: add flags indicating pending update of firmware module

After a flash update, the pending status of the update can be determined
from the device capabilities.

Read the appropriate device capability and store whether there is
a pending update awaiting a reboot.

Signed-off-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>