perf map: Add reference count checking

There's no strict get/put policy with map that leads to leaks or use
after free. Reference count checking identifies correct pairing of gets
and puts.

Committer notes:

Extracted from a larger patch removing bits that were covered by the use
of pre-existing map__ accessors (e.g. maps__nr_maps()) and new ones
added (map__refcnt() and the maps__set_ ones) to reduce
RC_CHK_ACCESS(maps)-> source code pollution.

Signed-off-by: Ian Rogers <irogers@google.com>
Cc: Adrian Hunter <adrian.hunter@intel.com>
Cc: Alexey Bayduraev <alexey.v.bayduraev@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Dmitriy Vyukov <dvyukov@google.com>
Cc: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@kernel.org>
Cc: Namhyung Kim <namhyung@kernel.org>
Cc: Riccardo Mancini <rickyman7@gmail.com>
Cc: Stephane Eranian <eranian@google.com>
Cc: Stephen Brennan <stephen.s.brennan@oracle.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/lkml/20230407230405.2931830-6-irogers@google.com
Signed-off-by: Arnaldo Carvalho de Melo <acme@redhat.com>