9P/RDMA: count posted buffers without a pending request

In rdma_request():

If an error occurs between posting the recv and the send,
there will be a reply context posted without a pending
request.
Since there is no way to "un-post" it, we remember it and
skip post_recv() for the next request.

Signed-off-by: Simon Derr <simon.derr@bull.net>
Signed-off-by: Eric Van Hensbergen <ericvh@gmail.com>