net, rds, Replace xlist in net/rds/xlist.h with llist

The functionality of xlist and llist is almost same.  This patch
replace xlist with llist to avoid code duplication.

Known issues: don't know how to test this, need special hardware?

Signed-off-by: Huang Ying <ying.huang@intel.com>
Cc: Chris Mason <chris.mason@oracle.com>
Cc: Andy Grover <andy.grover@oracle.com>
Cc: "David S. Miller" <davem@davemloft.net>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>