virtio_net: validate ethtool port setting and explain the user validation

We should validate the port setting that we got from the user and check
if it's what we've set it to (PORT_OTHER), also add explanation that
ignoring advertising is good as long as we don't have autonegotiation.

Signed-off-by: Nikolay Aleksandrov <nikolay@cumulusnetworks.com>
Acked-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>