btrfs: delayed-ref: extract find_first_ref_head from find_ref_head

The find_ref_head shouldn't return the first entry even if no exact match
is found. So move the hidden behavior to higher level.

Besides, remove the useless local variables in the btrfs_select_ref_head.

Reviewed-by: Nikolay Borisov <nborisov@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Lu Fengqi <lufq.fnst@cn.fujitsu.com>
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Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>