io_uring: kill io_sq_thread_fork() and return -EOWNERDEAD if the sq_thread is gone

This brings the behavior back in line with what 5.11 and earlier did,
and this is no longer needed with the improved handling of creds
not needing to do unshare().

Signed-off-by: Stefan Metzmacher <metze@samba.org>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>