command: unify --job option & default values

Extend the Command class to support adding the --jobs option to the
parser if the command declares it supports running in parallel.  Also
pull the default value used for the number of local jobs into the
command module so local commands can share it.

Change-Id: I22b0f8d2cf69875013cec657b8e6c4385549ccac
Reviewed-on: https://gerrit-review.googlesource.com/c/git-repo/+/297024


Tested-by: Mike Frysinger <vapier@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Chris Mcdonald <cjmcdonald@google.com>