Additional set of Thread Sanitizer related fixes (#482)

- Fix incorrect assert in concurrent_hash_map implementation
- Fix incorrect asserts in global_control implementation
- Fix exception pointer inside task_group_context
- Rework racy asserts in test_flow_graph_whitebox
- Improve test_eh_algorithm to work with sanitizers
- Disable memory limit test in test_malloc_compliance
- Add lifetime asserts in collaborative_call_once
- Rework backref space in tbbmalloc to use atomics
- Fix a lifetime issue in utils::SpinBariier
- Some tests were disabled

Signed-off-by: Alexei Katranov <alexei.katranov@intel.com>
Co-authored-by: pavelkumbrasev <pavel.kumbrasev@intel.com>