RDMA/cm: Add Enhanced Connection Establishment (ECE) bits

Extend REQ (request for communications), REP (reply to request for
communication), rejected reason and SIDR_REP (service ID resolution
response) structures with hardware vendor ID bits according to IBTA v1.4.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20200526103304.196371-2-leon@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>