drm/radeon: rework page flip handling v4

Instead of trying to flip inside the vblank period when
the buffer is idle, offload blocking for idle to a kernel
thread and program the flip directly into the hardware.

v2: add error handling, fix EBUSY handling
v3: add proper exclusive_lock handling
v4: update crtc->primary->fb when the flip actually happens

Signed-off-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Deucher <alexander.deucher@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Dave Airlie <airlied@redhat.com>