tcp_bpf, smc, tls, espintcp, siw: Reduce MSG_SENDPAGE_NOTLAST usage

As MSG_SENDPAGE_NOTLAST is being phased out along with sendpage(), don't
use it further in than the sendpage methods, but rather translate it to
MSG_MORE and use that instead.

Signed-off-by: David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>
cc: Willem de Bruijn <willemdebruijn.kernel@gmail.com>
cc: Bernard Metzler <bmt@zurich.ibm.com>
cc: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@ziepe.ca>
cc: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>
cc: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
cc: Jakub Sitnicki <jakub@cloudflare.com>
cc: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
cc: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
cc: Wenjia Zhang <wenjia@linux.ibm.com>
cc: Jan Karcher <jaka@linux.ibm.com>
cc: "D. Wythe" <alibuda@linux.alibaba.com>
cc: Tony Lu <tonylu@linux.alibaba.com>
cc: Wen Gu <guwen@linux.alibaba.com>
cc: Boris Pismenny <borisp@nvidia.com>
cc: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>
cc: Herbert Xu <herbert@gondor.apana.org.au>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230623225513.27322563

-2-dhowells@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>