xdp: add xdp_set_features_flag utility routine

Introduce xdp_set_features_flag utility routine in order to update
dynamically xdp_features according to the dynamic hw configuration via
ethtool (e.g. changing number of hw rx/tx queues).
Add xdp_clear_features_flag() in order to clear all xdp_feature flag.

Reviewed-by: Shay Agroskin <shayagr@amazon.com>
Signed-off-by: Lorenzo Bianconi <lorenzo@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>