netfilter: introduce nf_conn_acct structure

Encapsulate counters for both directions into nf_conn_acct. During
that process also consistently name pointers to the extend 'acct',
not 'counters'. This patch is a cleanup.

Signed-off-by: Holger Eitzenberger <holger@eitzenberger.org>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>