tap: add support for IOCB_NOWAIT

The tap driver already supports passing in nonblocking state based
on O_NONBLOCK, add support for checking IOCB_NOWAIT as well. With that
done, we can flag it with FMODE_NOWAIT as well.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/8f859870-e6e2-09ca-9c0f-a2aa7c984fb2@kernel.dk


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>