md: stop using for_each_mddev in md_notify_reboot

Just do a simple list_for_each_entry_safe on all_mddevs, and only grab a
reference when we drop the lock.

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Logan Gunthorpe <logang@deltatee.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>