net/mlx5e: link NAPI instances to queues and IRQs

Make mlx5 compatible with the newly added netlink queue GET APIs.

Signed-off-by: Joe Damato <jdamato@fastly.com>
Reviewed-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240209202312.30181-1-jdamato@fastly.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>