net: add debug checks in napi_consume_skb and __napi_alloc_skb()

Commit 6454eca8

 ("net: Use lockdep_assert_in_softirq()
in napi_consume_skb()") added a check in napi_consume_skb()
which is a bit weak.

napi_consume_skb() and __napi_alloc_skb() should only
be used from BH context, not from hard irq or nmi context,
otherwise we could have races.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>