io_uring: add support for 128-byte SQEs

Normal SQEs are 64-bytes in length, which is fine for all the commands
we support. However, in preparation for supporting passthrough IO,
provide an option for setting up a ring with 128-byte SQEs.

We continue to use the same type for io_uring_sqe, it's marked and
commented with a zero sized array pad at the end. This provides up
to 80 bytes of data for a passthrough command - 64 bytes for the
extra added data, and 16 bytes available at the end of the existing
SQE.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>