hinic: add support to set and get pause params

add support to set pause params with ethtool -A and get pause
params with ethtool -a. Also remove set_link_ksettings ops for VF
and enable pause by default.

Signed-off-by: Luo bin <luobin9@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>