nvmet: Remove the data_len field from the nvmet_req struct

Instead of storing the expected length and checking it when it's
executed, just check the length inside the command themselves.

A new helper, nvmet_check_data_len() is created to help with this
check.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
[split patch, udpate changelog]
Signed-off-by: Logan Gunthorpe <logang@deltatee.com>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>