i3c: add actual_len in i3c_priv_xfer

In MIPI I3C Specification:

"Ninth Bit of SDR Target Returned (Read) Data as End-of-Data: In I2C, the
ninth Data bit from Target to Controller is an ACK by the Controller. By
contrast, in I3C this bit allows the Target to end a Read, and allows the
Controller to Abort a Read. In SDR terms, the ninth bit of Read data is
referred to as the T-Bit (for ‘Transition’)"

I3C allow devices early terminate data transfer. So need "actual_len" field
to indicate how much get by i3c_priv_xfer.

Reviewed-by: Miquel Raynal <miquel.raynal@bootlin.com>
Signed-off-by: Frank Li <Frank.Li@nxp.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231201222532.2431484-4-Frank.Li@nxp.com
Signed-off-by: Alexandre Belloni <alexandre.belloni@bootlin.com>