rhashtable: Allow rhashtable to be used from irq-safe contexts

rhashtable currently only does bh-safe synchronization making it impossible
to use from irq-safe contexts. Switch it to use irq-safe synchronization to
remove the restriction.

v2: Update the lock functions to return the ulong flags value and unlock
    functions to take the value directly instead of passing around the
    pointer. Suggested by Linus.

Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: David Vernet <dvernet@meta.com>
Acked-by: Josh Don <joshdon@google.com>
Acked-by: Hao Luo <haoluo@google.com>
Acked-by: Barret Rhoden <brho@google.com>
Cc: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>