fbdev/core: Add fb_device_{create,destroy}()

Move the logic to create and destroy fbdev devices into the new
helpers fb_device_create() and fb_device_destroy().

There was a call to fb_cleanup_device() in do_unregister_framebuffer()
that was too late. The device had already been removed at this point.
Move the call into fb_device_destroy().

Declare the helpers in the new internal header file  fb_internal.h, as
they are only used within the fbdev core module.

Signed-off-by: Thomas Zimmermann <tzimmermann@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Sam Ravnborg <sam@ravnborg.org>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20230613110953.24176-35-tzimmermann@suse.de