ice: Fix ice_cfg_rdma_fltr() to only update relevant fields

The current implementation causes ice_vsi_update() to update all VSI
fields based on the cached VSI context. This also assumes that the
ICE_AQ_VSI_PROP_Q_OPT_VALID bit is set. This can cause problems if the
VSI context is not correctly synced by the driver. Fix this by only
updating the fields that correspond to ICE_AQ_VSI_PROP_Q_OPT_VALID.
Also, make sure to save the updated result in the cached VSI context
on success.

Fixes: 348048e7

 ("ice: Implement iidc operations")
Co-developed-by: Robert Malz <robertx.malz@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Robert Malz <robertx.malz@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Brett Creeley <brett.creeley@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jesse Brandeburg <jesse.brandeburg@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Piotr Raczynski <piotr.raczynski@intel.com>
Tested-by: Jakub Andrysiak <jakub.andrysiak@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>