RDMA/rxe: Rewrite rxe_task.c

This patch is a major rewrite of the tasklet routines in rxe_task.c.  The
main motivation for this is the realization that the code violates the
safety of the qp pointer by correct reference counting.  When a tasklet is
scheduled from a verbs API the calling thread has a valid reference to the
qp and schedules the tasklet to run at a later time carrying a pointer to
the qp. Once the calling code returns however the qp can be destroyed at
any time. In order to correct this a reference to the qp must be taken
when the task is scheduled and held until it finishes running. This is
complicated by the tasklet library not alwys running a task that is
scheduled depending on whether someone else has scheduled it.

This patch moves the logic for deciding whether to run or schedule a task
outside of do_task() and guarantees that there is only one copy of the
task scheduled or running at a time.

Secondly the separate flags controlling teardown and draining of the task
are included in the task state machine and all references to the state are
protected by spinlocks to avoid consistency and memory barrier issues.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230304174533.11296-9-rpearsonhpe@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Bob Pearson <rpearsonhpe@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>