libbpf: auto-set PERF_EVENT_ARRAY size to number of CPUs

For BPF_MAP_TYPE_PERF_EVENT_ARRAY typically correct size is number of
possible CPUs. This is impossible to specify at compilation time. This
change adds automatic setting of PERF_EVENT_ARRAY size to number of
system CPUs, unless non-zero size is specified explicitly. This allows
to adjust size for advanced specific cases, while providing convenient
and logical defaults.

Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andriin@fb.com>
Acked-by: Song Liu <songliubraving@fb.com>
Acked-by: Yonghong Song <yhs@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>