ice: Align macro names to the specification

For get PHY abilities AQ, the specification defines "report modes"
as "with media", "without media" and "active configuration". For
clarity, rename macros to align with the specification.

Signed-off-by: Anirudh Venkataramanan <anirudh.venkataramanan@intel.com>
Tested-by: Tony Brelinski <tonyx.brelinski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>