mptcp: sockopt: make 'tcp_fastopen_connect' generic

There are other socket options that need to act only on the first
subflow, e.g. all TCP_FASTOPEN* socket options.

This is similar to the getsockopt version.

In the next commit, this new mptcp_setsockopt_first_sf_only() helper is
used by other another option.

Reviewed-by: Mat Martineau <mathew.j.martineau@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Matthieu Baerts <matthieu.baerts@tessares.net>
Signed-off-by: Mat Martineau <mathew.j.martineau@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>