net: refactor bpf_sk_reuseport_detach()

Refactor sk_user_data dereference using more generic function
__rcu_dereference_sk_user_data_with_flags(), which improve its
maintainability

Suggested-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Hawkins Jiawei <yin31149@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Jakub Sitnicki <jakub@cloudflare.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>