ext4: restructure ext4_expand_extra_isize

Current ext4_expand_extra_isize just tries to expand extra isize, if
someone is holding xattr lock or some check fails, it will give up.
So rename its name to ext4_try_to_expand_extra_isize.

Besides that, we clean up unnecessary check and move some relative checks
into it.

Signed-off-by: Miao Xie <miaoxie@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Theodore Ts'o <tytso@mit.edu>
Reviewed-by: Wang Shilong <wshilong@ddn.com>