md-cluster: send BITMAP_NEEDS_SYNC message if reshaping is interrupted

We need to continue the reshaping if it was interrupted in
original node. So original node should call resync_bitmap
in case reshaping is aborted.

Then BITMAP_NEEDS_SYNC message is broadcasted to other nodes,
node which continues the reshaping should restart reshape from
mddev->reshape_position instead of from the first beginning.

Reviewed-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Guoqing Jiang <gqjiang@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaohua Li <shli@fb.com>