drm/ttm: flip the switch for driver allocated resources v2

Instead of both driver and TTM allocating memory finalize embedding the
ttm_resource object as base into the driver backends.

v2: fix typo in vmwgfx grid mgr and double init in amdgpu_vram_mgr.c

Signed-off-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Auld <matthew.auld@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20210602100914.46246-10-christian.koenig@amd.com