io_uring: avoid ring quiesce while registering async eventfd

This is done using the RCU data structure (io_ev_fd). eventfd_async is
moved from io_ring_ctx to io_ev_fd which is RCU protected hence avoiding
ring quiesce which is much more expensive than an RCU lock. The place
where eventfd_async is read is already under rcu_read_lock so there is no
extra RCU read-side critical section needed.

Signed-off-by: Usama Arif <usama.arif@bytedance.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220204145117.1186568-4-usama.arif@bytedance.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>