io_uring/rsrc: remove io_rsrc_node::done

Kill io_rsrc_node::node and check refs instead, it's set when the nodes
refcount hits zero, and it won't change afterwards.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/bbde361f4010f7e8bf196f1ecca27a763b79926f.1681395792.git.asml.silence@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>