net: rps: add rps_input_queue_head_add() helper

process_backlog() can batch increments of sd->input_queue_head,
saving some memory bandwidth.

Also add READ_ONCE()/WRITE_ONCE() annotations around
sd->input_queue_head accesses.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>