net/smc: Terminate connections prior to device removal

Removing an ISM device prior to terminating its associated connections
doesn't end well.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Raspl <raspl@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Karcher <jaka@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Wenjia Zhang <wenjia@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>