netfilter: nf_tables: deactivate anonymous set from preparation phase

Toggle deleted anonymous sets as inactive in the next generation, so
users cannot perform any update on it. Clear the generation bitmask
in case the transaction is aborted.

The following KASAN splat shows a set element deletion for a bound
anonymous set that has been already removed in the same transaction.

[   64.921510] ==================================================================
[   64.923123] BUG: KASAN: wild-memory-access in nf_tables_commit+0xa24/0x1490 [nf_tables]
[   64.924745] Write of size 8 at addr dead000000000122 by task test/890
[   64.927903] CPU: 3 PID: 890 Comm: test Not tainted 6.3.0+ #253
[   64.931120] Call Trace:
[   64.932699]  <TASK>
[   64.934292]  dump_stack_lvl+0x33/0x50
[   64.935908]  ? nf_tables_commit+0xa24/0x1490 [nf_tables]
[   64.937551]  kasan_report+0xda/0x120
[   64.939186]  ? nf_tables_commit+0xa24/0x1490 [nf_tables]
[   64.940814]  nf_tables_commit+0xa24/0x1490 [nf_tables]
[   64.942452]  ? __kasan_slab_alloc+0x2d/0x60
[   64.944070]  ? nf_tables_setelem_notify+0x190/0x190 [nf_tables]
[   64.945710]  ? kasan_set_track+0x21/0x30
[   64.947323]  nfnetlink_rcv_batch+0x709/0xd90 [nfnetlink]
[   64.948898]  ? nfnetlink_rcv_msg+0x480/0x480 [nfnetlink]

Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>