nvme: handle effects after freeing the request

If a reset occurs after the scan work attempts to issue a command, the
reset may quisce the admin queue, which blocks the scan work's command
from dispatching. The scan work will not be able to complete while the
queue is quiesced.

Meanwhile, the reset work will cancel all outstanding admin tags and
wait until all requests have transitioned to idle, which includes the
passthrough request. But the passthrough request won't be set to idle
until after the scan_work flushes, so we're deadlocked.

Fix this by handling the end effects after the request has been freed.

Link: https://bugzilla.kernel.org/show_bug.cgi?id=216354
Reported-by: Jonathan Derrick <Jonathan.Derrick@solidigm.com>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Chao Leng <lengchao@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>