net/smc: improve state change handling after close wait

When a socket is closed or shutdown, smc waits for data being transmitted
in certain states. If the state changes during this wait, the close
switch depending on state should be reentered.
In addition, state change is avoided if sending of close or shutdown fails.

Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>