mptcp: sendmsg: reset iter on error redux

This fix wasn't correct: When this function is invoked from the
retransmission worker, the iterator contains garbage and resetting
it causes a crash.

As the work queue should not be performance critical also zero the
msghdr struct.

Fixes: 35759383 "(mptcp: sendmsg: reset iter on error)"
Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>