exofs: Prepare for groups

* Rename _offset_dev_unit_off() to _calc_stripe_info()
  and recieve a struct for the output params

* In _prepare_for_striping we only need to call
  _calc_stripe_info() once. The other componets
  are easy to calculate from that. This code
  was inspired by what's done in truncate.

* Some code shifts that make sense now but will make
  more sense when group support is added.

Signed-off-by: Boaz Harrosh <bharrosh@panasas.com>