locking/spinlock, netfilter: Fix nf_conntrack_lock() barriers

Even with spin_unlock_wait() fixed, nf_conntrack_lock{,_all}() is
borken as it misses a bunch of memory barriers to order the whole
global vs local locks scheme.

Even x86 (and other TSO archs) are affected.

Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
[ Updated the comments. ]
Cc: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>
Cc: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
Cc: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>
Cc: Paul E. McKenney <paulmck@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Cc: Peter Zijlstra <peterz@infradead.org>
Cc: Thomas Gleixner <tglx@linutronix.de>
Cc: linux-kernel@vger.kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Ingo Molnar <mingo@kernel.org>