xprtrdma: Fix completion wait during device removal

commit 13cb886c upstream.

I've found that on occasion, "rmmod <dev>" will hang while if an NFS
is under load.

Ensure that ri_remove_done is initialized only just before the
transport is woken up to force a close. This avoids the completion
possibly getting initialized again while the CM event handler is
waiting for a wake-up.

Fixes: bebd0318 ("xprtrdma: Support unplugging an HCA from under an NFS mount")
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>
Signed-off-by: Paul Gortmaker <paul.gortmaker@windriver.com>