io_uring: cancel-match based on flags

Instead of going into request internals, like checking req->file->f_op,
do match them based on REQ_F_INFLIGHT, it's set only when we want it to
be reliably cancelled.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>